Merry christmas!

ain't he adorable...
off to family dinner here...

Happy holidays!

Some christmas tunes :

John Lennon (with Yoko) - Happy Christmas


Bing Crosby - White Christmas


Peanuts - The Christmas is Here


Wham! - Last Christmas


u2 covers : I Belive in Father Christmas

Being professional?

I and my hubby were out shopping this weekend. Since it was so f****** cold outside, we went out in all condition gear. To my surprise, one of the Hugo Boss' stores had a team of sales personnel that was totally unfriendly. I wear suites all week at the office, and work myself through plenty of shirts every year. I don’t tend to enter into the store on cold and rainy days with a suite and a tie. And I do dress quite casual in my spare time.

Entering the store, we really didn’t find anything nice on the first floor. Suddenly I looked up and saw that one of the team was laughing at us on the mezzanine. Kind of like; so here are these two guys wearing big jackets with hoods, jeans and sneakers at our fancy Hugo Boss store. Boohoo. Anyhow we went upstairs and I found a couple of new shirts that I liked and decided to buy them. When I went down, I got to the cash desk. I gave them my credit card to pay for my two shirts and suddenly when they saw it their attitude changed.

From being unprofessional they were staring to lick ass big time. “Where are you from, can we help you with some more Mr T”.

Ask my hubby and you would get the answer that once I see something I like, my conversion rate is high. I tend to buy it quite fast. But this time I said no. At the same time I thought to myself that I am not going to give this poor loser of a bloke more commission than he already had.

I felt that I just participated in an episode of Pretty Woman. I have never witnessed a so unprofessional team ever. And if they only had known they’re own brand they would have seen that I was wearing Hugo Orange, sneakers and jeans.

Hot designerbears

Damd. Just saw this two hot gay designer.


Check a hotter photo in Gawker 2007 article on Designer Bears at
Gawker.com!

Being boring?

Pet Shop Boys

Not being John Malkovich?

Sometimes I wonder about the difference of what I can write public. Some things are too private to write. Even on a site like this. How detailed I want to go. About life, love and the whole big bang. Some things are not worth to publish, and some things is not smart to publish.

Oh, I am too tired to think about this kind of stuff tonight...

need a personal trainer again.

Don't have the energy to motivate myself for the gym.

Just a couple of weeks left until...

... that welcoming christmas brake. Kind of tired at the moment. I guess two weeks off will do the trick.

Hopefully the SantaBears will look happier than this the teddy on the picture.

Being naughty?

I wish my boyfriend was here so I could practice some being naugthy :-)

Guess these pictures will have to do :

The red series...

Just some pics...

My only big TV-crush

I was chatting with a mate yesterday. During the conversation the subject of TV-crushes was mentioned. My mate had lots of crushes. From Bobby in Dallas, a bloke from NYPD blue, George Clooney and some big lad from Dynasty. I didn’t know the half of them.

So I was challenged to mention my big TV-crushes. To be honest I don’t remember than many. Only one comes to mind. A late brilliant British TV-journalist with witty humour and a larger then life charm. If you don’t know who I am talking about, you are not alone. My mate didn’t either. Not at this point.

Ok so here are some cue words; chubby, laddish, Armani suits, bald, funny, warm, big boned and a hot gay bloke. Ok any British readers might know who I am talking about, but do you?

Some more Cue’s ? Well his fame started with the news show Zero 30, and later he created the fabulous Liquid News.

So who am I talking about? None other than the late, great Chris Price. I remember having liquid news on a TV-channel I had through my cable provider, but the channel went out of the package for a couple of months. When I got the channel back, the setup on the show was changed, and Chris was not the presenter any more.

In late 2002 I found out that he didn’t quit the show, but he unfortunately died of a rare brain disease (meningoencephalitis). I remember I was so shocked when I found out. I don’t know why, I surely didn’t know him personally, but I know I had a big TV-crush on him. Probably the only big TV crush I ever had.

Well to round this post up I guess I will add another photo:

and a video clip of Liquid news.

Yesterdays photoshot!

Oh, before I head out, here is some pics from yesterday.

Lazy lovly Saturday...

Damd, it feels nice to be lazy. Wasn’t out of the bed here, until the clock was eleven. Just had a nice espresso and are heading out for early lunch, late breakfast. Just going to hit the shower, and get dressed.

Uploaded a some new pictures from yesterdays photo session at Biggercity. Suspenders are nice LOL

Finally weekend!

And what better way is there to start a weekend than by relax?

Cool Xtube

I surly didnt know that!

No wonder why I enjoy heading to the US. Almost 4 % of the population in the states has Scandinavian/Nordic ancestry.

Numbers from US Census 2000.

Don’t let other people define who you are!

During Europride in Stockholm this summer, I got into a fight over words with this local bearded drama-queen from Sweden. Here is the story and the lessons learnt some months in retrospective.

It started out as a great week with friends and my hubby. Dining, heading for parties, enjoying the pride and having a good time. So what is wrong with this picture? Nothing really but at one of the bear parties this Swedish drama queen comes up to me and tell me that I should drop one of my mates. Why I kindly asked, and boy was I surprised by his answer.

This totally garbage of a human soul told me that my mate was "Soo - not a bear", and had nothing to do at a bear party. And he didn't know why we (aka "the bear gang" i suppose?) hang with him. "What?" I said, following up with "Who the f*%¤ do you think you are?". This f*%#ing twat said "I am famous, you are lucky to talk with me". I was like "Whatever, skank ho, get out of my face, and out of this lounge you shithole".

Luckily my mate didn't hear any of the conversations since he is a really nice, big and caring guy. I have no clue if he considers himself a bear, and I cant see how that’s really the point. We were a nice group of guys having a good time, being inclusive and not bothering anyone. How can people find it so provocative that this big lug of a guy was there?

Don’t get me wrong, but people are people, and being a gay male bear is for me, all in the mindset. Real bears only exist in the wildlife or at the zoo. I don’t think they hang around at bear bars waiting to hook up with drama queens.

Ok, so what are the lesions learnt
1) Don’t underestimate how stupid some people are
2) Human gay male bears comes in all shapes, sizes and colors
3) Even at the gay human bears there are drama queens with egos like a hot air balloon

Ok music of choice to this post was either the pretenders “Don’t get me wrong” or Mary J. Blige “No more Drama”.

I love those lazy weekends

Waking up whenever we want to. To have a breakfast at an Italian coffee bar is nice. Make hot steamy love to my boyfriend. Spending time together, taking every hour as it comes. Cuddling, sleeping, shopping and dining. The joy of giving and receiving a good massage.

Oh those lovely lazy weekends…

Sometimes I wonder what life would be if I was born in another place far away?

Who would I be?
What would I do?
How would I live?

IKEA's Family Lives ad upsets conservative catholics in Poland

IKEA has for two decades or so, run ads showing different kind of lives and different kind of families. The ads has had focus on breaking out of steriotypes showing gay lifestyles in a positive matter.

In Poland, IKEAs new issue of Familiy Lives have made a Polish A polish anti-gay spokesman call outfor a boycott of the brand and its stores. In the magazine a gay couple is featured sharing their view on their family.

Source: Radio Sweden (SR)

Supremecourt ruling goes in favour of same sex marriages

The suprimecourt in Nepal made a groundbraking ruling that ensure glbt-people all civil rights, including the rights of same sex marriages.

Source : hindustantimes.com

Damd, horny last night and horny today!

Horny tonight

Had to watch a porn movie here, would rather have my hubby here for some “mano el mano” action, and some compulsory cuddling :-)

“The arrival of the wintertime”

This song gives me the shivers; it’s the Norwegian artist Ingrid Olava doing a cover of an old rocktune by Jokke & Valentinerne. Amazing. Didn't know the lyrics was so poetic. oh - eh it's in Norwegian (wich is almost the same language as Dannish).

Tallak vs Prince (or the artist firmly know as a twat!?)

Ok, I know it’s not braking news or anything, but I do have to blow off some steam here. Why should I ask for Princes approval to be myself? What kind of autority is he to tell me that I shouldt marry my boyfriend?

It is so darn 80’s to have a “partly like it’s 1999”. Sometimes I wonder if he needs to get some publicity.

I guess so, why else would he suing kids that sing and dance to his music on youtube? My f****** problem is that I like his music though... :-)

My top five sites to book hotels

Ok, so this i more of an internal posting made for myself to keep track of the search engeenes i frequently use for booking flights, hotels and other traveldeals. But to make it more interesting for others I will try to give each of them a short description. I just checked out the Hudson hotel at Manhattan, and to my suprice there are quite a variety of prices between the companies mentioned. My search data was 2 adults, from 13th to 15th of february 2009.

Anyhow, here are my top five sites to book hotels.

#5. Rates to Go
www.ratestogo.com
Rates to Go is a last minute hotel site giving you access to hotels in more
than 80 contries.

#4. Venere
http://www.venere.com/
Venere gives you access to Hotels, apartments and b&b accommodation worldwide.

# 3. Expedia with sistercompanies
www.expedia.com
Expedia got a large selection of traveldeals (flights, hotels, cars, tickets etc) and have a large flight and hotelbase. It has all the major flightcompanies. The
same group also have

• www.hotwire.com where you get a price of a hotel by your choice of stars, in the location you want, but it's a "secret" what hotel you get before you put your purchase through.
• www.hotels.com where I guess you basicly access the same hotels as in Expedia
• www.tripadvisor.com where you can review and rank hotels

#2. HRS - Hotel Reservation Service
http://www.hrs.de/
HRS is a german company with a good bookingsite. It focus it's services around hotels.

# 1. Booking.com
www.booking.com
Booking.com is a part of the Priceline group (www.priceline.com) and has a good access to hotels of all levels. If your looking for a flight, their parent Priceline give you that option.

Gay Marriage: friend or foe?

I believe that the last few weeks have shown us that parts of USA, is falling behind in civil rights. When a lot of the western countries are seeing a broadening of equal opportunities, the states are entering into a backlash over gay rights. Who would think that catholic Spain would approve gay marriages before the good old US of A?

That’s why I understand the frustration over the mix between the churches and the state. I am all for peoples individual rights to their religion of purpose, but that right can by no mean take away other peoples civil rights. The civil rights – in this setting the gay marriage – is between to people of the same sex wanting to make that commitment count. It is commitment between these two people and the state. I don’t believe that you should force churches and religious organizations to wed same sex couples. But I do believe the legal commitment of a gay marriage should be accepted by the state. How else can the land of the free, really be the land of the free?

I love America, and I love the dynamic way that country works. I love NFL and NBA. I love the street life on Manhattan. I love the openness and the warmth that Mid-Western Americans show. I just hope the country will see what resources they have in they’re gay and lesbian communities before it’s too late. If not, I guess a lot of talent will move elsewhere, both to Canada, states in Mexico who legalize civil unions, or to the countries that legalize gay marriage in Europe.

In Richard Florida book, “The Creative Class” he draws line between how the population centers with room for creative people, has a better growth than cities that don’t allow that same creativity. Some of the metrics of that creativity is immigrants, talents and queers. In his later book “The flight of the creative class” he asked the question about if USA is loosing some of its powers, by not nurturing and growing talent. But if the states don’t allow you the same civil rights at others – why would you a) stay there or b) go there? Why stay when Canada, Europe and others are asking for their talent and telling them that here you have equal marriage rights?

I do believe that we are in a period of change, the next decade or so will make the American dream come true for everyone. But will it be too late? Will the talent have flown away? I don’t hope so, but you never know…

[image from Googles LIFE photo archive ]

Ten reasons why I love my boyfriend.

How has a lazy bloke like me gained such a nice hubby? I dont know. Anyway, here is my top ten reasons for why i love my boyfriend.

1. He is adorable
2. He is good in bed
3. He is bloke around
4. He is smart
5. He is sexy
6. He is picky
7. He is nice
8. He is pushing me further
9. He is funny
10. He is honest

If there is anyone up there?

Ballad of the Moon
The moon came into the forge
in her bustle of flowering nard.
The little boy stares at her, stares.
The boy is staring hard.

In the shaken air
the moon moves her arms,
and shows lubricious and pure,
her breasts of hard tin.

"Moon, moon, moon, run!
If the gypsies come,
they will use your heart
to make white necklaces and rings."

"Let me dance, my little one.
When the gypsies come,
they’ll find you on the anvil
with your lively eyes closed tight"

"Moon, moon, moon, run!
I can feel their horses come."

"Let me be, my little one,
don’t step on me, all starched and white!"

Closer comes the horseman,
drumming on the plain.
The boy is in the forge;
his eyes are closed.

Through the olive grove
come the gypsies, dream and bronze,
their heads held high,
their hooded eyes.

Oh, how the night owl calls,
calling, calling from its tree!
The moon is climbing
through the sky
with the child by the hand.

They are crying in the forge,
all the gypsies, shouting, crying.
The air is viewing all, views all.
The air is at the viewing.

Federico Garcia Lorca

Asked the P-question.

Yesterday, I got an offer that got me into another state of mind. I was getting some messages at this site, and suddenly this message from this hot cub arrived.

The bloke and his partner are cute as hell. I must admit that I have watched some of their movies. So the letter was very nice. Explaining how they liked my profile. The hot guys were telling me that they would like to play with me in their upcoming video. My minds got a strayed. What? Are they asking me to make porn? They sure were! One part of me was totally amazed, and I must admit that it got me horny as h***.

In fantasy land, having a foursome with these two together with my ubersexy boyfriend would be such a thrill, having a ball. Knowing what these two guys produce there movies often has five or six participants. Knowing the standard of hot guys in the productions they create. I guess the behind the scenes would be a fun ride (pun intended).

In real life, I am not quite sure that I want to share my hot hubby. I love him and I enjoy having him all by my self (selfish me). I don’t think I would gamble on destroying what we have on any form of group sex. I do know that I never would make a porn tape though. It doesn’t go that well in my line of work. Consequently, I guess being a porn star even for one movie is not an option. In fantasies – sure, but in real life I guess some private homemade work will do.

I do however enjoy watching it. I am impressed with the peoples who make a career out of it, and the ones who do it besides their everyday work. There are so many hot movies out there with cubs, chubs, bears, older daddies and chasers that I do enjoy to watch.

Tallak (aka not that porn star after all)

Love is in the air :-)

The Björn Borg apperal company (famous for theyr underwear), just released a new commercial about it's slogan "Love for all".

It can be seen as a statement on the ongoing debate about gay marriages in Scandinavia (and the world as a whole). It is a must see.

Check it at
http://qstream-down.qbrick.com/05247/missions/loveforall/film/bjornborg_love_640x360.mov

Flachback from the 90's

I love this song:

Home in bed

Are coffing and have a fever today. Probably got it from my projec assistant that have been sick all week. Going back to bed here.





oops - there I am :-)

Nude in the shower

Just a pic of me nude...

My first post...

Been some time since I was blogging. I dont know how I am going to use this blog yet, but I guess it will be a fusion of my thoughts, pics and tags.